5 Love Language You Must Be Able To Meet In Your Relationship

No matter what age, human needs to love and to be loved comprise almost its entire life. From toddler to the adult stage, we assumed that love plays primary elements on one's development. Thus, any relationship evolves loving. As we grow older and have an intimate relationship with the opposite sex, each of us has different preferences of the love we had in the past. If you fail to meet the needs of the person, the relationship is at stake because giving love involves communication of your emotion.



This article helps you understand what is the most effective way to give love to your partner to prevent misunderstanding and conflict.

1. The Act Of Appreciation

Many couples fail to meet each demand in every stage of relationship because the other one fails to demonstrate the love that their partner needs. One of the acts of love is the act of appreciation. This could mean giving praise such as 'You are awesome', 'I am proud of you', or can be a simple smile, stare, or giving your partner a message. This helps blossom the relationship and trust that will eventually make your partner more committed in the relationship.

2. Giving Errands And Help

Each person needs support and help. When life gets rough, your presence could give them encouragement and strength to be more courageous but giving something that they really see such as gift whether monetary or not conveys that you are not simply giving an item to a person but giving them your heart. It is an act what displays you are trusting them enough to share them something that you can consume yourself. This means sacrifice because though you may need it, you still give it to your partner.

3. Being A Recipient

Have you ever thought about why some girls refrain from receiving gifts from their suitor? Well, this simply means deeper than just being refusing the gift. When you look closely and comprehend this act it could actually mean that they do not like the giver, or tells you that they are not interested not particularly on the item or gift, but more on the person and they do not want to lead the giver into thinking that she likes him. Therefore, as a recipient you had the duty to make sure you are not wasting it or wastefully using it because they had sacrifice money, effort and time giving it to you thus if one reject to accept the gift, it could mean that the receiver do not feel deserving for such sacrifice because in hidden truth, the receiver has also a responsibility to mindfully use it.

4. Undivided Attention

Time is a resource that you could not take back once it is already used. You are giving a portion of yourself when you are giving them your time and attention. In this hustle and hurry world, time is very scarce resources to one person yet if you still spending time with your partner then they will feel important.

5. Physical Touch

Just as I remember an old friend asked me, 'Why you are on earth? Isn't it to  touch?' To live gives you the opportunity to touch things and people. In life, physical tough such as a hug, cuddles, kiss, holding hand and all those are an expression of one's love for the other.

It is interestingly fun to know what types of love language your partner needs at a different stage or time in life. You could not mistake the type of love language your partner needs as such it will give them an insight that you are not on the same page and would create awkwardness or distance between the two of you.